You're not the problem. The industry made you a disposable buyer.

A guy on Reddit posts in r/cookware: "Just threw mine in the trash." Dozens of comments under it, all the same story.
If you've tossed 4 pans in 3 years, that's not a skill problem. It's a material problem.
Coated pans are built to be consumables. The makers know it. They sell you "nonstick" and ship you a polymer with an expiration date.
You're not doing anything wrong. You're just buying the wrong pans.
And here's the part the industry won't say out loud: coatings don't fail because you're careless. They fail because physics says they have to. That's reason 2.
But I take good care of my pans. Why do they still fail?
Because a coating and the metal under it expand at different rates when they heat up. Thousands of heat cycles, and the bond has to crack. Scratches from utensils, the dishwasher, and acidic foods like tomato sauce all speed it up. No amount of careful use stops the physics.










